How To Improve Intimacy With Your Spouse,

How To Improve Intimacy With Your Spouse
By H. Miller 


Intimacy is a very important part of a marriage. Sadly enough, there are way too many couples who aren't experiencing happiness in this area. So what should you do? How can you start experiencing the type of intimacy with your spouse that you once experienced when the marriage still had that new smell? Well the first thing you can do is start being open and honest with each other. If you are not sexual satisfied, you should communicate that with your spouse.


Please be aware that this is a very sensitive subject for everyone involved. You never, and I repeat NEVER, want to make your spouse feel inadequate in any way. And as my mother use to always tell us. Its not what you say, its how you say it. So although this is a very sensitive subject, you can still discuss it without driving a wedge between you and your spouse.


A simple way to do it is to purchase a book or even videos that provide new ideas that you can try in the bedroom. You and your spouse can read the book or watch the video together and get ideas. This is a very subtle way of bring up the subject. If there is something new you want to try, it is important that you tell your spouse.


Another thing you should do is start doing the things you did in the beginning of your relationship. It seems as though when couples get married they cut out all the date nights and walks in the park. So go back to what was working. For a woman, sex starts outside of the bedroom. The alone time, the talking and sharing makes her want to share herself with you. When you tell her that she is beautiful, that makes her want to open up to you.


When it boils down to it, communication is the key that unlocks the door to sexual satisfaction. Don't be afraid to talk to your spouse about your desires or the new things you would like to try in the bedroom. Truth be told, your spouse is probably waiting for you to make that move. They probably want to have that talk but just don't know where to start. So be the initiator.


If you have to, watch "In The bedroom" with Dr Laura Berman together so you can get information and ideas that can help you on your journey to sexual satisfaction.






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